The sweet lie
How modern fruit has changed, and what that means for your health
I grew up near a little forest. Me and my neighborhood girlfriends would spend hours running through the trees, chasing whatever magical story we had invented that day. It was playful, creative, and endlessly free. In the height of summer, we’d pause our adventures to pluck berries straight from the bushes—tiny, wild things that stained our fingers and made our faces scrunch up from the sourness. We'd eat until our bellies were full, then continue our search for forest fairies, convinced they were hiding just beyond the next tree.
It wasn’t until years later that I realized how different the fruit in supermarkets had become. Shiny, uniform, oversized, and above all—sweet. The tart, wild flavor I loved as a child? Almost entirely gone.
So, what happened? It looks like fruit, it smells like fruit, but is it the same as what our grandparents ate? Not even close.
Let’s explore how modern agriculture and selective breeding have shaped the fruit we eat today—and what that means for our health, hormones, and blood sugar balance.
Modern Fruit: Engineered for Taste, Not Balance
Over the past century, the fruits we find in grocery stores have been selectively bred—not genetically modified in the lab per se, but intentionally cultivated—for sweetness, size, and shelf life. Wild fruits, as they occur in nature, were often smaller, seedier, more fibrous, and significantly less sweet. But the modern palate has shifted. Consumers expect apples to crunch, bananas to taste like candy, and grapes to pop with sugar.
In response, commercial growers have favored varieties with higher sugar content and lower acidity, creating fruits that are more palatable, and therefore also more imbalanced. Overall, sweetness sells! This is also why the fruits have been growing in size over the years. An appel used to be the size of a little nectarine, or a big cherry.
For example:
The modern banana (Cavendish) has about three times the sugar content of its original wild ancestors.
Grapes, apples, and watermelons have all been selectively bred to enhance sugar and reduce bitter phytochemicals, compounds that, ironically, play important roles in health and detoxification.
Fruits: Most vs. Least Modified
Here’s a simplified look at some of the fruits based on how heavily they’ve been modified through human cultivation:
🍭 Most Modified Fruits (bred for size/sweetness):
Bananas (Cavendish variety)
Apples (especially Fuji, Gala, and Red Delicious)
Seedless grapes
Watermelon
Pineapple
Mango
Nectarines
Papaya
Oranges (navel and Valencia)
🌿 Least Modified or Closer to Wild:
Wild or heirloom berries (blackberries, raspberries, elderberries)
Figs (in season and from traditional farms)
Pomegranate
Kiwi (golden kiwi is sweeter; green is closer to traditional)
Cherries (especially tart varieties)
Olives (yes, technically a fruit!)
Crabapples and foraged apples
Wild plums
The more a fruit has been bred for sweetness, the less fiber and phytonutrients it typically contains in proportion to its sugar load.
Health Implications: Sweet Fruit & Blood Sugar
While fruit is considered natural, not all fruit is created equally, especially when it comes to our bodies glucose response.
Many of us, especially women, are dealing with symptoms of blood sugar dysregulation without even realizing it: afternoon crashes, brain fog, irritability before meals, hormonal imbalances, and poor sleep. Add sweetened, modern fruit to the mix—especially eaten alone, juiced or in excess—and you're likely to see a spike in glucose followed by an massive energy drop.
Frequent blood sugar spikes can:
Increase insulin resistance
Trigger inflammation
Disrupt hormonal balance
Elevate cortisol levels, which impacts mood and metabolism
This doesn’t mean fruit is bad. But it does mean we need to be more mindful of how, when and what we eat, especially if we want to use food to support our nervous system, fertility, and energy—not destabilize it.
Actionable Tips: How to Enjoy Fruit Without the Crash
🍓 Pair it with protein or fat
Combine fruit with a handful of nuts, Greek yogurt, or a boiled egg to reduce the glucose spike.
🍇 Choose fiber-rich or tart varieties
Opt for berries, kiwi, pomegranate, or green apples, which have more fiber and less sugar.
🍌 Avoid fruit juices and dried fruits
These are extremely concentrated and stripped of the fiber that helps slow sugar absorption.
🍒 Eat fruit after meals, as a dessert, never on an empty stomach
This flattens the glucose curve and gives your body more time to metabolize it gently.
🌾 Explore local, seasonal, or heirloom fruits when possible
Farmers markets or CSAs often carry varieties that haven’t been overly commercialized.
Final Thoughts: Sweetness Isn't the Whole Story
Fruit, in its essence, is beautiful. It connects us to the earth, the seasons, our ancestry. The taste is amazing and makes us feel healthy, balanced, our skin glowing and vibrant. But like many things in modern life, it has been optimized for profit and pleasure, sometimes at the cost of balance.
This isn’t about demonizing a banana. It’s about waking up to what we’ve normalized, and learning to make choices that support our unique biology. Especially as women, our hormonal and metabolic systems are more sensitive than we’re often told. What seems “healthy” on the surface doesn’t always nourish us at the root.
So next time you reach for that perfectly shiny apple, just pause. Maybe pair it with a spoon of almond butter. Or swap it for a handful of tart blackberries. And when in doubt, lean into variety, tradition, and realness, because sweetness was never meant to be the whole story!